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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband went through all this around age 45. Including the self grooming. There absolutely was no affair nor interest in one. It was just a mid life crisis plus depression. He was also quick to argue with me, blame me for things, etc, and twenty years into our relationship I was not blameless in some bad habits that had set in - which during this period he was quick to hone in on and blame for all his problems. It was challenging.  Ultimately I had to learn to give him some space, bend over backwards to treat him as impeachable and perfect, and he had to learn to stop being so “dark” and try and reframe his life. The period lasted around three years and we got through it and things are back to normal and great again.  I have several friends whose husbands went through similar in their mid to late forties, and other than one, it did not involve grooming to cheat or cheating. [/quote]

They just didn’t get caught.  Truthfully.  I can’t tell you how many guts I know that had the 2-3 year midlife meeting someone else married on the internet for no strings sex with nobody the wiser.  Only one guy in a group of 5 buddies doing it got caught and that was after 3 years of doing it.[/quote]

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