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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see it with my boyfriend, he tries to call the kids, they don't answer, he texts his XW, she doesn't respond or have kids call, rinse and repeat.[/quote]

Does the custody arrangement specify phone calls?  Because it's not really mom's job to make the kids call their dad. It's the dad's job to use his parenting time to build a strong enough relationship that the kids want to talk to him.  Plenty of dads manage to do it.  [/quote]

Most custody agreements are meaningless except if you have two rational reasonable people who are willing to work together.  Dad cannot have a relationship without mom's support if she refuses contact.  How does he get around her?  He can't.[/quote]

You clearly don’t understand custody.

If he has a court order agreement he shows up and gets the kids, if she refuses you request a police stand by.[/quote]

You’re going to force a 6”0 16 year old/boy to do that?[/quote]

Police are there for actual danger. It isn't their job to supervise custody transfers when there's no actual danger. If your child doesn't want to see you, that's your problem, but you're not in danger and neither is your child (except maybe from you, MRA, if you can't control yourself). You don't get hours of cop time for free just because your kid doesn't like you and is too big for parents to physically coerce.[/quote]

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