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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So that they learn to handle a breakup in a supervised manner & get relationship experience. Am I the only person who feels this way?[/quote]

I will probably shock everyone even more but I would prefer my son to have sex fairly early. I believe it boosts confidence and takes the edge off so to speak. It’s best if he first tries it while still in my care as I can probably make sure it’s done in a safe manner [/quote]

I’m not shocked by it, but I wonder if you’d feel different if he was a girl.

For me, my 15 year I believe is having sex with her boyfriend. I am not upset about it, she put herself on birth control from visiting the student health center. I’d rather this than what some kids seem to do, and what I did at 18, which was “get rid of it” out of embarrassment of being an old virgin. Not that these are the only two choices of course. But she’s with a very sweet caring boy and it could be worse and I feel like is giving her a healthy foundation for relationships and intimacy. Knowing her pretty well she’s just not the type to wait to experiment so it really could be worse.[/quote]

I was a girl myself once :) I remember intense feelings around still being a virgin when I was 18. However when I was 17 I didn’t want to do it with someone who clearly wanted it. I think it’s more complicated for girls. If I had a daughter I wouldn’t want her to stay a virgin for too long for sure. [/quote]

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