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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It does sound really suspicious, and I hope there’s no secret debt or divorce lurking. Can you live on $380 k? If not are you willing to cut back to a life style where you can? I know people in big law with huge private school payments and huge mortgages and it does seem stressful. I think it’s fair to express that you are not willing to work more but would be happy to help him have less pressure financially if you really mean it. I would feel stressed being locked into a life that required that kind of income long term but that doesn’t mean that you have to take that burden on. [/quote] PS it would also be normal to feel like he isn’t valuing what you do keeping your family running. I have less advise on that, aside from leaving him in charge for a week or two for a reality check [/quote]
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