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[quote=Anonymous][img][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We did them a lot in our 20s before kids. We had a lot of free time to cook and it was an easy way to relieve burden on the host. Now in my mid-30s with young kids - I would NEVER ask a guest to bring something. Coming to my home is supposed to be relaxing - kids entertain each other for a few hours without heavy parent involvement, delicious food magically appears. Occasionally I cook something simple while DH handles the kids. More often than not, I order in. Once my kids are older I will probably go back to cooking for my parties. But I probably won’t go back to potluck-style.[/quote] Another thing about mid-30s with kids - our friends don't all live close anymore, and I don't want someone driving 45 minutes to 1.5 hours from a suburb on the opposite end of the DMV to also worry about bringing food. Showing up is enough of an effort![/quote] Yes to this. And even if they don’t live far away, just getting the kids and yourselves nicely dressed, packing up the diaper bag, entertaining them in the car, etc. can be a lot of effort too! So I want them to get the five-star resort treatment when they step in my home.[/quote]
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