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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband has a high intensity job and I have deliberately taken a more flexible but lower paying job do that out family life runs more smoothly and I can shift my schedule around and cover emergency child care needs. Because of that, we have less money than dual income families where both parents work high demand jobs. I don't think that the choice to take a more flexible job should always be the woman's, but I do have a problem with couples who don't make the decision to take less money and more flexibility who then complain about how the workforce is unfair. You get to have the money, so why do you think your life shouldn't be a little harder than mine.[/quote] And sometimes both parents take flexible jobs.[/quote] And that's great. But, couples in which neither parent choose to take a more flexible job and who enjoy two full incomes can't be too surprised or upset that people who have made the choice to forego the money have it easier. We all make our choices in life and all choices come with trade-offs. [/quote] +1 -- with OP and last PP; also, to second PP -- not everyone has the option to take a "flexible" job (for example, whether you're in a big firm or an NGO, there aren't a lot of those jobs in law [/quote]
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