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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Love at first sight, total nightmare marriage with physical and emotional abuse.
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How long did you date before marriage? Genuinely curious. I tell my teens 2 years should be enough to discover if they’re faking something [/quote]

Nope, he was waving red flags wildly the entire time we were together.  More important than time together is having a healthy sense of self esteem and self respect and not tolerating abusive behavior from anyone, no matter how much they say they “love” you or how charismatic they are.  I had a wildly dysfunctional upbringing and I would hope and assume that the average child of a dcurbanmom will have a little more emotional armor.

Abusive people are making a choice to act that way and can act “loving” for exactly as long as they need to.  Look how many people on this board marry people who have narcissistic traits or are just wildly selfish.  You need to know to kick them to the curb the FIRST time they show you who they are, and that’s really really hard.[/quote]

Every word of this.[/quote]

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