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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No, huuuuge red flag. Someone gave up their kids? They are a pos. End of story. [/quote]

Usually it’s not that they “gave them up,” but that their ex-partner basically stole custody.[/quote]

Not possible. If they don’t have them they didn’t do the barest minimum to fight for them. [/quote]

After a divorce, with child support, alimony, divorce costs, often men get stuck with the bulk of the expenses and they simply cannot afford the court battle.[/quote]

Every family court is more than equipped to do this with pro se litigants. The default rules heavily favor fair splits so it’s very hard for a mom to successfully avoid giving a willing dad his time. [/quote]

You really think a Dad will win pro se against an attorney and mom who makes up stories about how bad the dad is?  And, what if mom moved the kids cross country - that is still filing fees, plane tickets, hotel.  And, what about people who cannot travel freely like active duty?[/quote]

A parent who is active duty will get consideration when they’re no longer active duty. This is excuse is so dumb. [/quote]

Absolutely not true.  Been there, done that.  And, even with a court order, if mom refuses visits very few courts/judges will enforce it.   Been there/done that too.  There are always excuses of why from mom.  Kids have activities, friends, separation anxiety, or pull the abuse card even though there is no evidence or the only true documented allegations are against mom.[/quote]

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