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Reply to "Can you remain married to a man who doesn’t have a vision?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I'm sorry for your TTC losses. That must be very hard. It's really tough to want something so badly, yet feel so powerless to accomplish it, and I bet that feeling is coloring your whole relationship right now. Having said that, I think you need to take some responsibility for your choice to marry a man with this kind of temperment. He's not likely to become the leader that you want him to be. He just isn't. The things that you want, you'll have to find a way to make happen on your own. Live with the marriage you actually have, not the one you imagine you could have had. It's okay if you're the leader of long-term planning in your family-- I'd actually argue that that's a good thing since women tend to have longer life spans than men. Accept the role and embrace it. If you want to buy a home, figure out a plan to save-- try reading Frugalwoods blog. [/quote]
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