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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here- yes, everyone, I shouldve figured that I would receive the typical DC Urban Moms response which is to cut down the person seeking advice and help.  I am whiny, etc.

Thanks everyone!! You guys are great![/quote]

I'm the one who said your post sounded whiny and I'm so not the typical DCUM responder. I wasn't cutting you down personally, hence why I said your [i]response[/i] sounded whiny, and it did. You have to accept that you bear some responsibility in this situation, but you don't seem to be willing to do that. If you looked at what you're putting out there, and changed some things, you'd probably be able to get involved with classmates and families. If you refuse to see how you can change anything and just want to sit in your house waiting for the sociable people to come to you, you're going to be waiting a long time. I'm not sure what response you wanted... you sound perfect and it doesn't make sense that you don't have friends? You don't attempt to interact with the other families, and prefer to spend your time in your house. That's your answer. If you don't want to change those things, your situation won't change either. We don't really have anything to lose here, we're just trying to tell you what might be causing your problem. Sometimes objective criticism is healthy and can help you see what you can't see on your own. Sorry if it hurt your feelings. [/quote]

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