Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Kids With Special Needs and Disabilities
Reply to "DD 16 attempted suicide Friday. Need tips for ME."
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]NP but I’m so sorry. We haven’t had an actual suicide attempt but we have dealt with the threats of it and violence against other family members. There has been police involvement and a lot of mental health treatment. How I help me - let the house go. No cleaning or cooking. Order take out every single meal if you have to. That’s what I’m doing this week to get by. When you can manage, put in a grocery delivery order for frozen prepared food to have quick things to throw in the oven, especially if you have other kids. When I have to do laundry, throw it all in without separating and then throw it all in the dryer. Order athletic clothes if you don’t have them. I sometimes even wear them to work now if I can’t manage anything else. Confide in people who will be supportive. They may not be the closest people to you. My parents, siblings and closest friends have not been a supportive system for me and give not helpful unsupportive advice. People who I’ve thought of as more of acquaintances but who can relate and some coworkers have been an amazing support system and it’s been a huge relief to have people to talk to. If you can, find a therapist and even marriage counseling if you start fighting more. We did with the stress and it made it worse. Counseling for us helped. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics