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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m really sorry. When I had lots of losses a friend who had also been though the fertility journey told me “you will get the baby you are meant to have”. She was so right. I hope that you get your rainbow baby soon. Fwiw, IVF wasn’t nearly as bad as I imagined it would be. My anxiety about it was much worse. [/quote] I find the meant to be narrative extremely offensive and upsetting. No, things don’t always work out for the best. And minimizing loss this way is awful. My living child is wonderful. But I’ll always miss their older sibling, who was stillborn. Meant to be language makes me so angry. [/quote]
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