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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would just say, "Hi, how are you?" and let the conversation flow from there. If she suggests getting together make sure the ball is left in her court.

Her:  We should get together for coffee
You: That would be great; text me when you're available

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I wouldn’t say text me when you’re available.  I would say something like, yeah I don’t think so.  I tried getting together with you several times and you ignored me.  So I don’t want to meet up with you.  And say it loudly so it embarrasses her. [/quote]

You will embarrass yourself if you do that. Also do you really want to be in a situation where mutual friends can't have you both over for the same party because you acted like such a tw*t last time you were in the same room?[/quote]

Meh.  Sounds like this lady probably does this to others so it’s good of OP to warn others, make them aware.  Not messy at all[/quote]

very messy, very look at me - very awkward for everyone else who knows you

hey, if you like drama, def go this course[/quote]

I think people are just trolling responses. No way would a normal person react like this in this situation. Just be nice, if she says let’s get together, just say that sounds great, let’s do that! And then if she follows up, I would give her a second chance but I wouldn’t make the first move. Honestly, life does get busy. I don’t always have the time I want. I wish I did. During these years with young kids and activities, it is harder to maintain friendships with one-off friends who don’t have connections to other parts of my life. It’s not personal. This sounds stupid but I actually have a list of at least two people I can name that I plan to reach out to once my kids are older and I can develop relationships with people who weren’t already a friend or don’t live in a 2 mile radius. No idea if they will be receptive then but I don’t have time to cultivate those relationships now. [/quote]

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