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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re gonna cheat on him with a woman. I’d leave before the cheating happens. You probably have sex once every six months because you’re clearly not attracted to him. [/quote]

This is horrible to say. I had sex with my husband this morning. I would never cheat on him, with anyone, regardless of their gender.[/quote]

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this hate.  Some of the people posting here hate queer people and while you're anonymous, just discussing your bisexuality has allowed them to horrible things to you.  One of the most common biphobic tropes commonly said by straight people it that bi people cheat.  So they're applying that hate speech to you.  Being bi doesn't make you a good person but it doesn't make you a bad person either.  Bi people are monogamous and they cheat.  It depends on the person.  A lot of straight people cheat but we don't go around saying all straights cheat.  It would be a ridiculous assertion.  The other commonly used attacks against bi people are (for women) that they aren't bi and they're doing it to seem quirky (you have had this used against you up thread) and that they're just (obviously for bi men) gay men.

I'm sorry you're experiencing these personal attacks and hate speech.  Most of that is because it's online.  If they actually saw you face-to-face, they almost certainly wouldn't have said that.  The Internet really reveals the black, dead, hate filled hearts some people have.[/quote]

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