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[quote=Anonymous]Kids need boundaries and limits. You also need things to give in to when they are older...if you give in to everything when they are tweens, then as teens you are in big trouble. I don't care what her friends are wearing, my 10 yr old wears a modest suit - in my eyes there is no need for her to look sexy or to show extra skin or to attract boys at there age. Does she have to cover up from head to toe - nope but no little triangle bikinis or skimpy suits that move out of place when you jump in the pool. Thankfully so far my DD is cool with sport suits and her group of friends are still into having fun and not into trying to be sexy. I see lots of tweens at the pool in suits that make me cringe. I worked at a pool as a teen and there was a lot of physical contact in the pool between tween/teen boys and girls. Pool play / games was the perfect opportunity to touch each other. [/quote]
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