Reply to Four-year-old son likes makeup and nail polish

Forum Index » Infants, Toddlers, & Preschoolers

Reply to "Four-year-old son likes makeup and nail polish"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I always hate these threads of mothers so proud that their son wears pink, dresses in tutus and paints his nails.

I agree that 4 is pretty young for it to be a sexual orientation issue.  I also don't think it is bad if the little boys in your house don't wear make-up or paint their nails.  The boys in my house do not.  My boys used to comment on my toes (I always paint them) and notice when the color changed...tell me they liked the color, etc.  They also see me put on make-up.  The little one used to play around with the make-up brushes--actually dust with them more than anything---or use my eyeliner/lipliners like crayons.  They do note that this is "Girl Stuff".  That is for "girrlss".  I am okay with face paint, etc.  Boys in make-up not so much.  I remember by brother being horrified when my older sister and her friends would paint him up and put barrettes in his hair--he'd run from them shrieking.  I think that is a pretty normal response too.

I am not comfortable with painted fingernails or make-up/lipstick on boys. Period.  I think it is just weird.  I am for gay rights and gay marriage so don't incorrectly assume those of us that aren't into it are homophobes.

I can't recall if one of my boys ever asked me to paint their nails---if they did I am sure I said it was somethign girls do and it was left at that.  We don't really need to indulge every single one of our children's requests.  If my kid asked to go to school naked the answer would be 'no' too.[/quote]

I find people who have issues about boys with make-up on or painted fingernails to be overly rigid.  It's your right to feel the way you feel, but I don't think that either one is going to make my boys into a girl or change their sexual orientation.  They're just being silly and creative and having fun.  They're little. They're playing with appearance. It's not a deal.   I was a theater major. I knew lots of creative guys that work make-up in college.

It's not bad if boys don't. It's not bad if boys do. It's only bad if the adults freak out about. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics