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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Heavy hosters:  people may be relieved when you start dropping them from your invite lists.  They may just be too busy trying to take care of the day-to-day stuff, that entertanining, or going to others' hosted events, is not a priority to them.  They may be surprised that, every time they turn around, they seem to have a new invitation from you.  They may just feel relieved when your invitations lessen.  Just a thought. . .people have different priorities, different financial situations, different time commitments, etc.  [/quote]

You can say no.  But, just because I entertain a lot doesn't mean I invite the same people over often.  Most people don't get an invite but once a year, a few get one every few months, one family gets an invite every month or so when our schedules gel (but we are very close, we all wish it were more, and they have no problem saying that it is easier to go elsewhere - we only go to their place about once every year or two by the way because that is easiest for everyone), and there are a couple single friends that I try to make sure to invite over week or two or they start feeling left out (my closest single friend comes at least every other week, but I have only been to her house, which is huge and four blocks away, three times in 9 years, and once I was hosting a party for her there).  And, one of the reasons that I host is to equalize so that financial situations aren't as relevant; the income/wealth swing of my guests, even at the same party sometimes, is massive.[/quote]

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