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Reply to "If it was the norm not to have kids, would you still have them?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Yes because I didn't have kids because it was expected, I had them because I got baby-hungry (I had kids young so nobody was pressuring me). But if I had known what I know now, I'm not sure I'd have kids. It was and continues to be a huge sacrifice, and my oldest wishes she had never been born because she has struggled with major mental health struggles her entire life. If you think about it, the fact that I chose to have kids is a little unfair to her. But her younger brother loves being alive and thanks me every day for his existence. I dunno, it's a very odd and existential issue to grapple with. [/quote]
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