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[quote=Anonymous]I am so, so sorry!! I think in this case therapeutic lies are considered fine. If he asks to go home, maybe you can say not today because they are fixing something, or whatever. Will he remember your excuse the next day? I will say after watching my father decline over many years and have a gruesome last few weeks of misery, I was so at leave and relieved when he was gone. I loved him. I knew he didn't want to be alive anymore because even though he could no longer talk, he tried to unhook everything and made angry noises when they hooked him back up. He was no longer suffering and could in my mind go see see all the loved ones he had lost. Can they give him anything to make him more comfortable-anti anxiety, anti pain, etc? Maybe adjust the dose if he already gets that? Thinking of you OP. It's very hard to watch a parent suffer. Just know your presence brings some comfort.[/quote]
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