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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I notice that articles like these always frame the issue as some deficiency or failing with men, whereas when a demographic trend is unfavorable for women it is usually externalized, attributed to some outside force or...blamed on men again. We need to start being honest about how held-preferences, individual action and societal forces are combining to foment these trends. It's easy to just resort to bludgeoning men, but I don't think it's the answer long term.[/quote] I [u]do [/u]think the answer is with men. My dh was raised by his parents to be a full partner: work, cook, clean, love children, remember holidays. So many men just weren't. They basically think all they need to do is get a job. Showing up doesn't count anymore for men. Women do it all and men need to step up. I'm raising my sons to do better. I have both sons and daughters and I also think schools play a role. They are geared towards girls who sit better and don't need as much activity.[/quote] You say the answer is with men and then also talk about how pedagogy has been slanted to emphasize the ways in which girls learn at the expense of boys...[/quote]
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