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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same thing happened to me at 42 after 24 years of marriage.  Youngest was graduating HS that year so I left.  I did suggest counseling but he wasn't interested.  I did not initiate the divorce my H did but we did not have conflict over anything so that went smoothly and cost me nothing.  We divided assets and debts fairly.  Our kids were mostly fine with it although the youngest struggled a bit with so much independence at first but she recovered nicely and is doing great.  My H also was a great dad and I was a great mom (just ask my kids!) and he and I are good friends.  I do not regret splitting up then at all.  I have dated, had a couple longish relationships and am now single and loving my life.[/quote]

Thank you. We both talked about separating last June during a heated argument. He gaslights.  He came to me and basically said we need to work it out for the kids but didn't want to actually DO the work. I have begged for counseling and he won't go.[/quote]

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