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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be careful what you wish for …….. Once you start staying with them, there is no out! Let them plan and then get your hotel room nearby maybe for two nights. Spend all day and meals with them and then return to your peaceful hotel and relax. It is a win win situation. Leave it as is. [/quote] Do this. Times 1,000. I would go a bit further though and DH would tell them clearly, now, in advance, "We're looking forward to the beach. We'll be at Hotel X as usual, wanted to be sure we were clear on that. No way would we stay in the house either, OP. Just so much more relaxing to have your own space, sense of more safety, and to not have to be "on" every second, worried about the cousin. worried about family drama if you mention the concerns, etc. I would nip the whole "But we made sure we got a house with room for you" stuff by saying this year in advance, "We'll be there at Hotel as usual." [/quote]
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