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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]At work is the easiest way. People flirted with me at work, invited me for lunch, talked to me about past affairs, etc. once I said no to lunch they stopped, so you need to know when to stop, because you don’t want to harass a coworker.[/quote]

Isn’t it risky to mess around with coworkers? Not to mention that many of us now work fully or partially remote[/quote]

Nope it’s highly risky and will be eventually disclosed to spouse. The two married lawyers I described above were avoiding workplace affairs like plaque. The 51 yo was looking for sort of intellectual equal and only slightly younger woman. They need to talk to their kept woman not just having safe sex. Men are humans, too, needing some sort of connection for joyful intimacy. 
We shared parenting tips, chatted  politics  on a second date before he laid out his “proposition”. It would have been a legal contract with confidentiality clause. I declined and now met someone single interested in a long term relationship. I actually did like the married lawyer and would have totally slept with him for free if he wasn’t married. [/quote]

Skinny is one thing but I’d think his intellectual equal would have enough money or earning ability to not need to do this. Even a highly educated divorced sahm would likely be getting decent child support. [/quote]

I am not so sure that many divorced women in 40s would decline a confidential opportunity to move to a better neighborhood, send child to a better college etc. I make 350k myself but if I was making 100k at a non for profit struggling to make my ends meet… I don’t know. [/quote]

She’d be taking a risk with her child support payments with a material change in income, and then not disclosing its source (per NDA) and not paying taxes on it. She could lose her kids and be held in contempt— no thanks! [/quote]

You do realize there are cash transactions, right ? [/quote]

I do, but a good forensic accountant will find them and her NDA specifies a number. If her ex finds out about the new man, that document is discoverable.[/quote]

Good luck paying $25k for your thorough investigation. Cut the crap it’s pretty much not discoverable [/quote]

Plenty of angry exes out there have paid a lot more than that to save a lot less money. A deposition doesn’t cost $25,000– you’re going to lie under oath to protect the cheater?

If you’re going to go into criminal enterprise to get more money, you should be getting a lot more than $7k a month.[/quote]

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