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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So for those who say they don’t interfere with husbands relationship with parents, does he allow them to be rude to you and you just don’t care that he doesn’t stand up for you? [/quote]

I am the one who said that. No, if he allowed them to be rude to me that would not be OK. He tried to suck me into their drama early on telling me what they said about me when I set boundaries. I told him what they say about me behind my back is none of my business and he is creating problems telling me. He also would come back sharing everything his sisters said about their own husbands (who also set boundaries). I told him those issues are none of our business and if they want to have happy marriages then perhaps work all that out in counseling rather than constantly bashing their husbands to the rest of the family. i said it's not his place to judge the spouses when he doesn't know their side nor should he. His sisters are now divorced multiple times and they hate eachother too. I advised him to stay out their drama too. So I don't interfere with him seeing them, but I do advise him to not get sucked into drama.[/quote]

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