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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This would bother me but only because of the context of previous incidents and dynamics where I get the sense that my mil is more than ok with leaving me out if it means she can get them with her son (for example on a group vacation with in laws we could not get a big enough reservation at a restaurant so mil suggested I stay at house and they go. FIL protested it was strange, but she said it was find. I was too naive and people pleasing to say anything and DH was mindless letting his mom take care of everything. This has all since changed and DH sees now and I say NO when mil is doing crap like this). In and of itself I 100% don’t think there is an issue with it and it is actually sweet. If it is bothering you it is probably because it is triggering a deeper issue.[/quote] In our family, we would have said fine and my husband and I go somewhere else. :) Your husband should have agreed, and you invite your FIL with you.[/quote]
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