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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who is doing the non-monetary labor of caring for the elderly relatives?

I don’t feel I have enough info to take OPs side or not. [/quote]

not the rich brothers! but really this isn’t about proving who did more or less for Grandma. It’s about the fixation on what seems to me to be negligible amounts, rounding errors, to them. which in this case has resulted in them demanding MY money.  I could make a case adding up all the hours I spent, the money I gave, to show why I deserve the money that was legally left to me. But that seems incredibly absurd. [/quote]

I'm the wealthy one in my family and your attitude is exactly what annoys me about my family members. They like to count my money and decide how it should be best spent, and since they have determined that the amount of money I need to spend for the family good is basically nothing to me, then I should be happy to spend it without a single thought of repayment! It's not up to you to decide how much they can easily part with, and it's not for you to decide what they should be spending their money on. I agree with the PP - they are saying that they are willing to spend their money to help out family members, and they know that they will possibly not get repaid out of the small estate. But what they don't want is for family to decide that their wealthy family members should be writing blank checks, and then when it's time to distribute the estate, the poor relations who paid nothing should get a windfall. It's more about fairness than the money itself. People are always happy to spend your money for you and cry foul when you put up any boundaries, but somehow still feel entitled to whatever windfall they can get their grasping hands on. They're financially supporting your relatives. Maybe you should just be grateful that the burden isn't falling on you, instead of whining that you won't get more inheritance. [/quote]

Reading comprehension, dude. I DID financially contribute, and contributed 10x more labor. You can be as annoyed as you want, but when you pull down 7 figures and are trying to block a financially struggling sib from getting a comically small inheritance - yeah something else is going on. This isn’t about me telling them what to do with their money. It’s them trying to force others to, I don’t know, give them more money because they are rich and therefore entitled to it.

I don’t gaf about what they do or don’t do to support the remaining aging relatives (who I am estranged from and won’t support in any event). I just think it s very odd that the richer they are the more obsessive they seem to be about amounts of money that cannot functionally mean anything to them. [/quote]

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