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Reply to "ending a situationship when the other person does not think it is a "situationship""
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe he has Asperger's, OP, and to him things are very black and white. He's either in a relationship or not in a relationship, and so he has decided, given these two options, that he is in a relationship - and technically he's correct. You are. Just not the one you want. So knowing he might be inflexible and rigid in his thinking, you need to explain it from his perspective. Say you want to be in a closer relationship with someone else you have just met. The truth can help you. (My husband and son are Aspie. They appreciate being told things directly so they don't have to guess, and they also have very black and white thinking.)[/quote] Me again. If he's Aspie, he may have feeling for you, even though it seemed like a transactional relationship. It can be very hard for someone like this to connect in a normal way. Please don't assume bad intentions, that's all I'm saying. Be firm but kind. [/quote]
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