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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I wouldn't go higher than $3000.

For comparison, we are slightly higher HHI than you ($260k) and our PITI is $2200. We also have young kids (k, pk, and daycare) and save a decent amount (max 401ks, Roth's, $500/mo per kid to 529s) and after groceries, fixed expenses, activities, there's not a lot left!

Do you have a lot of room to grow in salaries? If so maybe go a little higher but you don't want to be house poor.[/quote]

Can only increase maybe 30-50k in the next 10 years.
That is similar to what we currently pay. 
We don't do 529s because we cash flow daycare/ tuition now so plan on continuing that. 
Admittedly don't max out 401k, but do contribute to get the match.

Hard to swallow staying in the house we have outgrown in order to put money away for 30+ years from now, but aware it's probably the smarter move[/quote]

Do you have other savings?

It sounds like your retirement savings are low, you don't have college savings. You can cash flow private school (Catholic? $24k/year seems fairly low) but college is much pricier and you're unlikely to get need-based aid at a $200k+ HHI. Do you have an emergency fund?

It really does seem like you should stay put and focus on saving.

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Thank you for this input.
yes, plan to contribute 25K per year per kid through college. Additional costs must be through comb of grants/scholarship/loans, etc

Our retirement savings are low, but one of us is a Fed and will have ~40k pension (in today's $) at retirement.
Total retirement savings now are ~ 150k

We have 16k in an individual brokerage account.
Also an inherited IRA (240K) that we haven't done anything with thus far.

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You are way behind and 25k/yr per kid for college isn’t jack shit , especially since you have young kids. You are very behind in retirement savings. Last thing you need is more debt and more expenses. Your focus should be college savings and more retirement contributions. [/quote]

OP said what they plan to do about college. You can disagree with their plan, but there is no reason to insult them.

OP never gave their ages and yet you are able to declare that they are way behind with 400k in retirement savings and a Fed pension. Ignoring the pension, 400k in savings on a 230k HHI is right on target for a 37 years old and OP might be a lot younger than that.[/quote]

Both DH and I are 35. 2 kids 8 and infant. 
I’m quite humbled by the responses on this thread. 
I thought we were doing ok financially.

230 HHI with no student loans, two paid off newer cars, no other debt. 
We have 30 years left to work so I thought contributing (10% and 7% of gross income respectively was not great, but ok). Perhaps I’m placing too much worth on the fed pension. 
Does everyone really max out 401ks every year?

Re: college savings, my parents (and parents of many friends growing up) paid for 4 years instate school. Anything else was understood to be my responsibility. Looking back I’m grateful for this. I went in-state  and didn’t graduate with any loans. They paid  a LOT less for my education than friends who went to OOS public’ and ended up with same degree. It was a good lesson for me.

A pp mentioned the down payment. We are being gifted down payment by a grandparent. . 
My question is to get a sense of PITI for day to day budgeting based on our income.

Thanks for helpful insight, however I do feel much worse about myself than I did going in!
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