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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Agree that you should talk to your mother less. But also, you need to separate that being fat means being ugly. They are two separate things. I know skinny people who are ugly and fat people who are beautiful. [/quote] Np I would agree with pp and also say separate being "unloveable" with being fat. I was also made to believe that being fat meant you were unloveable. Even when she talks about other members of the family I get triggered. I find out that that is when I grab for the pop tart when she says stuff like that. Problem is being thinner is healthier but, the way she did it made me feel awful and hate myself. I vowed never to do this to my kids and I don't. I am so sorry, op. You are not alone, sadly.[/quote]
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