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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I had a big argument because he feels like we spend way too much time at home on weekends and should be out more being active. We have 2 girls, ages 4 and 7, and they are not very sporty, so they prefer to stay home and do art projects, play dolls, bake, etc. On weekends they would probably never leave the house if we didn’t force them to.

We are definitely outdoors much more in the spring/summer/fall, going to the playground every weekend, swimming, bike riding, scootering, etc. The kids don’t like being outside in the cold and complain after 30 seconds and don’t stop.

[b]Currently the girls both do a gymnastics class on Saturdays and go to Sunday school on Sunday mornings, so we are really just talking about afternoon[/b]s.

What do other people’s weekend schedules look like with their kids. Do you force them outside when they just want to stay in and play ?[/quote]

I don’t understand the problem with this. If the girls are content, it’s fine. So many people here need to run run run. The girls will get busier as they why older. I also hate the cold and am much more active when it’s warmer. [/quote]

I agree with you and I also think the girls are both very young.

What I disagree with is the idea that the girls are “not very sporty.”  They are 4 and 7!  How can you make a blanket assumption like this at these young ages?  And especially if they are enjoying gymnastics?

I think in another year I would have the older daughter try a standard organized sport like softball or soccer and see how it goes, but I think gymnastics is also a great way to work the body and work in a team like any other sport as well.[/quote]

I don’t think she made a blanket assumption about anything. Her daughters like what they like. They don’t currently have interest in a team sport. They enjoy baking. Plenty of people do not enjoy team sports or any sports at all. Sports families for whatever reason tend to have a hard time understanding this. Her kids get physical activity and outdoor activity. They just didn’t want to play rec basketball or go on a cold hike. That is fine! The issue is the dad is antsy at home. It’s hard to tell from the post what he’d rather be doing. Can’t tell if he wants to at a museum, skiing or just with other people in a social way. [/quote]

Saying a four year old isn’t “sporty” or doesn’t have an interest in a team sport is a blanket assumption.  She’s only four!  And she likes gymnastics, which is a sport!  Even seven is pretty young to make a declarative statement like that.  [/quote]

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