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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s the thing: you have to work and learn on your own. Don’t want to do that? Fine. Your kid will eventually be cut. Why? Because there will be kids who are working on their own and they will be better. It can be a little surprising but that’s the way it is. You do not learn and get better unless you work on your own. Think about it though. Is your kid going to learn to be a better hitter getting 30-40 swings a week in softball practice? Is your kid getting instruction on how to position her feet? Her hands? Are they working on hitting behind the runner? Does she know how to change her stance and swing based on the game situation? Can you help with that? Yes. But, unless you have experience and expertise in teaching hitting you should leave the instruction to someone who can do that. But, watch and listen so you can help with repetition. Think: how much would your kid improve at hitting if she did 4 sets of 30 swings and 1 set of 30 bunts - 3 days a week? For the next 25 weeks? What do you think a softball coach will consider a 13 year old who can pull of a squeeze play? [/quote] I agree with this and a lot of times kids don't realize how much practice other kids put it. They don't see it and the kids don't talk about it. But there is a small number of kids who just have very natural talent as well - usually one on every team And I agree with others - it's performance on game day that counts. I have tried pointing this out to my DD but it falls on deaf ears. She thinks being compliant during practice and doing everything the coach asks is what matters. We have told her its not helping and if she wants the coaches attention she needs to actually play aggressively during the game.[/quote]
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