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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you see more upset with yourself for not letting this go- than you are for what she actually said. You don't say what line you are in- or if you agree with her- or if you are wondering 'what could have been', but you could explore that with therapy, if needed. Mostly I want to say that is a DICK thing to say- so I'm sorry- as that sounds like it must have felt awful- so public. It is typical of some fields (graphic design, artist, music, dance, medicine, -lots of fields where people you want to respect- feel a need to verbalize a snap judgement- either right or wrong). I try to fall on the side of 'were they right?' and 'do I care that they were right?'- or if suddenly you are feeling they are wrong- do you now then want to explore the field? If so, see how you could do that- in ways that don't interfere with your professional life.[/quote]
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