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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m 100% sure the DH was not pulling his weight, feigned incompetence to get out of things. Now that he has to do the job he has risen to the task but I’m sure was different in marriage. [/quote] +1 Some people only step up when there is no alternative. And I could see from the perspective of OP's friend that seeing him finally step up after divorce when he never did in marriage would be extremely painful. If only he had done so sooner, they might have been able to keep the family together. However, OP, you suggest this is getting to her to such a degree that he daughter is pulling away now. She has to accept that he was never going to change IN the marriage, even is he was able to outside of the marriage. She needs to let it go, and become her best version of herself for her kids, right now. Or she will lose more than a husband.[/quote]
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