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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think there are two issues here -- during labor and delivery, I think you have every right to control the visitors list (and frankly, if you don't want someone allowed in, you can just tell them so at the hospital, although I wouldn't recommend going this route).  But after the baby is born, and certainly after you leave the hospital, I think you may want to consider giving a little.  You're probably going to feel the effects of labor and delivery for several weeks, and if you're waiting to feel "comfortable" with your new baby, heck, we may be talking six months here.  I don't think I'd advise asking the ILs to hang tight until then :)

Can you say more about how your DH has approached this problem?  Has he been willing to discuss?  Has he proposed any compromises (even if they aren't workable for you)?  Or has he just said "It shall be as I wish it" and ended the conversation?  If we were to ask DH for his opinion on how this has all gone down, what would he say?[/quote]

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