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[quote=Anonymous]OP it's reasonable that you are in total control of who gets to visit YOU after the birth. But the BABY is your DH's too, and he has just as much right to share his joy and excitement with his family as you do with yours. If the parents want to come to the hospital and you're truly not up for it, let DH take them and the baby to the nursery for a bit while you get some rest. Same thing when you get home--I agree they should not be staying over at your house if you don't want them to, but if they are in a hotel and want to stop by for an hour or two each day, let DH visit with them and the baby and you can take a shower or sleep. If the baby gets hungry during that time DH can bring him to you. If you try to draw a line in the sand with your DH about controlling access to the baby, even BEFORE day one, you will regret it. [/quote]
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