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[quote=Anonymous]It’s complicated. My mother was a hoarder and when I was 19 I had to leave the roommate situation pretty abruptly and come home. She told me I couldn’t come for 3 more nights as she needed more time to free up my bed. My dad didn’t interfere as he was totally twisted around her finger. I now think that it’s not that she didn’t care; she made sure I was as educated as she could afford and learned a foreign language early on, she made sure I did sports etc. She was mentally ill and my dad was exhausted living with a mentally ill partner. Nevertheless I am relieved she is dead now. I have a very cordial relationship with my dad who can now finally live his life fully. So yeah I can’t say they didn’t really care. But it did seem like that back in the day. I sincerely hope everyone on this thread finds peace and realizes it’s not their fault and maybe their parents weren’t the villains but were mentally unwell and just couldn’t do better. [/quote]
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