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[quote=Anonymous]I felt like this a lot when my kids were babies and toddlers. I really disliked being defined as “mom” vs. a “parent.” Being a parent and having a family has always been really important to me but I just didn’t like some of the mom expectations I felt society put on me. I do think that is normal and understandable. I have also kept many dear friends in my life who are childfree by choice and I never thought of my identity as “mom” first. That said, as my kids got older, I have tried to be decently involved and I definitely try to make sure they have play dates and do lots of fun activities. I am social and have no problem with small talk or reaching out to others. I feel like these are almost two separate things though. Not wanting be seen only as a mom is totally normal and can be really healthy. I think people are forgetting OP said they enjoy spending time with their kids so I don’t think the accusations of uninvolvement are fair?[/quote]
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