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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OMG OP, be less judgmental.  You just brushed off all your peers at work as fratty but most of them are probably huge nerds because that's the pool they hire from.

I was you a decade ago.  I traveled with and hung out with and bonded with my co-workers, even though they were not the normal crowd I vibed with.  All people are worthy and have something redeeming to offer if you give them a chance.

Also listen to your instincts and quit after 2 years.  Find a career that better suits you. But do wait til the 2-year mark since that's the norm in consulting and pay off loans/save money first.
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So she should listen to her instincts and quit her job but not listen to her instincts about the people she works with?

Nah. I would do the exact opposite. I would be friendly and polite at work, but find close friendships elsewhere.

I'd keep that job a little longer in order maximize my career potential. Is she leaves in a more senior position, doors will open for jobs with great pay and work life balance. [/quote]

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