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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry. I’m a bit heavier than before kids and I hate it. I’d love to lose weight for myself and I’m sure my DH would enjoy it. We both like being active so it’s important to me to be able to do the things I want to do. I also have some really really obese family members and to some extent I feel like I’m doing pretty well compared to what you might expect based on my genetics. I have to work pretty hard to stay just a little heavy. But I could still do better. Every time I really feel like I have energy for really focusing on this a kid gets sick or my life gets insane in some other way and it’s generally on me to handle it. So I really would not appreciate if my DH was resentful of how I look without helping me get to a place I could do more. My DH isn’t working out to the extent yours is(he has a big job and mostly works) but he is a healthy weight or close but I’m probably fitter in terms of my activity level and strength because I try keep up some exercise no matter what. I don’t know how I’d feel if my DH was working out for hours. Probably resentful because I enjoy exercise and would like to do more. YMMV[/quote]

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