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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good lord people are harsh. Have you people never gone through similar feelings in your life? If not, obviously you cannot relate…..so don’t post! Argh. And don’t get triggered because OP isn’t satisfied just being a mom. There’s nothing wrong with that and there’s nothing wrong with it if you are satisfied. The point is working through the feelings to get to something constructive. Not have a bunch of righteous a-holes try to invalidate you. OP, I get it. Try to make time for friends, research job openings, get your linked in profile updated, set boundaries hearing about your husband’s career (just started this and I love it), set book goals, etc. Those things helped me feel like I was doing something constructive. Exploring the possible can give you a feeling of choice which I have found helpful as well. Also…. time is trippy and we kinda do turn into our parents by living similar stages of life however many years apart. [/quote] The reaction is because OP has done 0 reflection, still insults her mother, focuses on the superficial, and [b]denigrates what most of us are doing[/b] (anyone could be a mother). If she had posted with an ounce of self awareness and kept her post about her own life and her feelings rather than insulting anyone else, I am quite sure many posters would have posted much kinder helpful things. [/quote] It’s not about you.[/quote]
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