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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you give off anti-social vibes? So many people WFH because they have no interest in the socializing aspect and just want to clock in and clock out. If that sounds like you, then you can't be put out that people are socializing around you.[/quote]

No, I desperately wanted to go back to the office from day 1. I don't handle isolation well - ended up in therapy, plus meds the whole time I was at home. Regular lunches might have saved my sanity.[/quote]

Did you ever reach out to co-workers to get together? [/quote]

No, because I didn't want to be seen as a covid denier. I had no idea they were doing it secret already...[/quote]

So the onus was all on them even though you were the one suffering? That's not how it works. Friendship is a two way street. You wanted them too read your mind while you said nothing and tried to convey your feelings telepathically.[/quote]

Obviously they reached out to everyone else...[/quote]

Lazy and petty. Not a good combo. You have no idea how these lunches unfolded since you weren't involved. Nobody is stopping you from saying "hey let me know next time you go, I'd love to join" but you seem to have a piss poor attitude so it's becoming more clear you just want to be a victim. Dust off that resume.[/quote]

I've been applying for two years, trying to get back into an office. I haven't even gotten any interviews, but way to shove that knife in deeper. Thanks. Hope it made your day.[/quote]

People are giving you ideas and you have excuses for all of them. It doesn't seem like you really want to fix this or make any effort. Just complain. [/quote]

No one's giving me ideas of how to rejoin a team that doesn't want me. That's what this is about.[/quote]

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