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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]"What are the cons of having one kid?"

"The main con is that she costs more than having zero kids."

Statements that are technically correct can still make stupid arguments. [/quote]

But… that is an important consideration. It’s just that for the first and often the second, the desire to have that incremental child often outweighs the loss of money. And time.[/quote]

The desire to have three kids often outweighs the loss of money. And time. [/quote]

wrong. I have three -- raising three in the DMV is a crazy expensive and a total hustle.  5 more years of daycare is another 150k, 4 more years of college is another 350k. If you want your kids to go to camp ... its 1500 a week! a week! Forget about traveling or eating out -- paying a restaurant bill for a family of 5 when they are all adult sized teenagers ... ooph.  I wish I had really thought with my brain and not my heart because my retirement savings would be a lot larger. [/quote]

I’m a PP who wishes I had more and it sounds like you’re the test case for someone who shouldn’t have had more than like, 1.

So yes, if you are like this person and don’t realize that someone needs to watch *all three* kids while you’re at work, and *all three* kids need to eat and you foot the bill til they’re 18, and that you live in an inherently expensive city, then this is your thread. [/quote]

DP, but I think you’re trivializing real trade offs. Everything is truly a fortune these days and to give three kids an UMC upbringing, it’s going to be $$$. You have to be able to afford a home in a decent school district if going public (I’m in a NY suburb where this is easily $1.7-$2M for a fairly average home these days) or go the private route. Camps, meals, childcare, preschool, cars, groceries, extracurriculars, tutors, travel, doctors and birthday parties are all a fortune. The fact of the matter is that you have to be well off to afford three kids, and those who aren’t but have large families are going to be lacking somewhere if any of the above is important to you. [/quote]

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