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[quote=Anonymous]The siblings, MIL and FIL need to figure this out. It doesn’t matter what seems fair because decisions and choices made years ago should not impact what needs to be done now. No one should volunteer any family member to step up. SIL1 has done more than enough and unless she volunteers, shouldn’t be counted on to upend her life over someone else’s parents. FIL needs to take fewer and shorter trips. SIL1 and her DH can move out if the parents won’t. Farm out care to lessen burden on anyone. Moving to rural area, even with amenities doesn’t sound like an option at this time.[/quote]
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