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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We got our first dog as a puppy a year ago--I thought I had ruined my life and still think that on some occasions, OP.  It's certainly a lot more work and attention than I realized.  When I'm out walking the dog and don't feel like it (most walks!), I try to be positive and say going out for a walk is definitely better for my health than sitting on the sofa, which is what I would be doing right now if I didn't have this d*mn dog!  [b]We also find ourselves on a ridiculous dog "bed time" schedule and I'm not sure why--he's just a dog, can't he go to bed whenever?!   
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I'm not sure I have many words of wisdom, but I do think a mindset shift is necessary or you are just going to continue to be miserable.  Unless you get rid of the dog, that's not a great way to spend your time.  Having a dog definitely has it's (many) negatives, but I do really enjoy the snuggles and such, so keep thinking of those moments that bring you and your family joy.  [/quote]

I see a lot of these dog bedtime routines posted here on DCUM with people struggling with puppies. I am 6 puppies in (my own; have had many fosters) and think it's the most ridiculous thing. I especially think about this when I see things like 6pm "bedtimes" and then having to go out at 4, 5, 6am. I've kept mine on the schedule of the latest in the house to sleep  (me and DH around midnight) and they wake at a normal time (7am) for a pee and then go to sleep again, none of this 3am nonsense. The dog should accommodate your lifestyle, and they will! Just start how you want to end. [/quote]

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