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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Every year he makes promises that this bad communicating won't happen again. And every year, here we are. I sort of think this is a power struggle between my inlaws and me about who can host. They won't attend our Christmas because it means I'm hosting. [/quote] If I knew this was a pattern every year, I'd change it. I'd be annoyed that DH wasn't calling his parents, but I'd do it rather than putting them in this situation. This sounds like an issue between you and DH that you're blaming on your in laws. [/quote] This. If you'd like your in-laws to come, and you know your spouse won't do it in a timely manner, why not invite them yourself? I get that some people divide up family communications this way, but it's not an inflexible law, and it's basically an email or text from you with the details. Stop doing the same thing and expecting different results. [/quote]
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