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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Because at some point, you loved him enough to marry him. Perhaps you made a big mistake; that is reason enough to say "I'm sorry."

A divorce is never pain/ hassle/ cost-free, no matter how much you want it, that's another reason to say "I'm sorry."

A[b]nd if there are children involved, you have wrecked their lives. [/b]That's what most of us are expressing sorrow for.[/quote]

This is so untrue.

You know what wrecks lives? People staying in a bad marriage and modeling that behavior for their kids so when they grow up to be adults they too end up in a miserable marriage and think they have to suffer through life.

My kids say they are confused why people say "sorry" when they find out their parents are divorced. My kids' response to other kids is this: "Obviously, you don't want our parents to get divorced, but really it is not bad at all."

My kids are great.

I hardly speak to my still married parents with whom I had to endure growing up in a toxic environment with constant tension and fighting and who taught me to accept bad behavior from men that made me end up in a bad marriage myself. At 40, I stopped caring and started the divorce process. I am 100 times better off than being married...and so are my kids. [/quote]

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