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[quote=Anonymous]My perspective as married, F, who has worked with tech as counsel. And has a brother who was much like your description before he got married. Agree you need to see yourself as not boring. Tons of people are home watching the same Netflix so you are not alone. You sound like a catch! Be well dressed and confident. Try a personal shopper such as Nordstrom. Ask a trusted female cousin or sister for input. Absolutely you need to expand your social exposure. If you're introverted you may not want to be out 5 nights per week. But sitting alone in the suburbs isn't working. Some places where women are, are yoga studios. You might be able to find one that draws more single women in your age range or there may be women who will set you up with friends. Do meet ups work? I'm not familiar with that. Someone mentioned churches. If Jewish there is GatherDC. Definitely try your alumni group and make a goal for 2023 to go to alumni events and meet people there. Go to friends' alumni events. Don't be a wall flower, meet, smile. Go with a friend who will make you comfortable to mingle. On social media, consider reconnecting with former classmates. I know relationships that have started this way! Or, connect with a friend of a friend. Go to charitable events of non profits for causes you are passionate about. There are plenty of informal events versus formal galas. For your home state, check out your Congressional delegations State Society. See if there are any trivia nights that draw a promising crowd that includes women. See if a female cousin or a friend will give input on your online dating profiles. A lot of people still meet that way, while you are having fun living your life ! [/quote]
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