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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I’m realizing he has a serial addiction problem whether it is alcohol or sexting other women or cheating. He has given up alcohol for the most part but when he has one drink he cannot seem to stop and every time he is drinking heavily he winds up on Tinder sexting random women. The other weird thing is, he has a woman who is a friend of his family that he has known his he was a kid. She is a hot mess. College drop out, unemployed, heavy into party culture. She is mentally unstable and is a curvy suggestively dressed woman with no boundaries. Over the years I have found him wedding her when he is drunk. To my knowledge they have never hooked up as that would create a huge family drama for his and her family. But similar to her all the women he messages are big and curvy with a trashy look to them. I’m petite and small and preppy-looking. I don’t even think he’s attracted to me or that I am his type
I’m ranting. I’ve been up all night. [/quote]

You gave us all the information except the piece that matters: do you have kids with this man?[/quote]

No. Was hoping to TTC. [/quote]

I can't decide if waiting to drop this is troll level: expert or for real. But I am leaning towards it being for real. And so I am sorry you are going through this.

Bottom line: You deserve better and you will regret having a child with this man, period. Full stop.

The part where he has one drink and cannot stop - that's alcohol use disorder and it's hard to beat. It's hard to beat when you WANT to stop, much less when you don't. The sexting, Tinder, and cheating are all terrible as well. This guy has not made a good husband and won't miraculously make a great father. You are lucky that it's not 1950 and you aren't forced to stay with this man. Leave and start over. There are serious problems here that were here at the beginning of this relationship and they will be there after its end. And they aren't yours to fix. Spend your time and effort on you and go find a real partner that you can build a life with.[/quote]

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