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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry. Sending you a huge hug. My mom left my dad after 40 years of marriage due to him having multiple affairs. She simply could no longer live with a liar. If your dh truly loves the kids, he wouldn't continue  hurting you (and them) by cheating behind your back. I think we often are clinging to the person we want them to be rather than the person they really are. And that really only benefits them, not us.[/quote]

Oh please.  You can love your kids and still cheat on your spouse.  Spare us your drivel. [/quote]

I realize it is hard to understand someone else's experience as a child of a cheater but try empathy. Cheaters put their own needs first. That's not love.[/quote]

Cheating has nothing to do with kids. Maybe your parent was just a jerk that’s not because they cheated. It’s because they were a jerk. People can she still loves her kids but that means that they don’t love their spouse …don’t confuse the two.[/quote]

That’s not how it works if you live your kids you don’t cheat. It does irreparably damage. You don’t damage people you love.[/quote]

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