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Reply to "Guy I’m about to break up with bought me an expensive gift"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have an adult son with bipolar. I get not being able to commit. But you really need to set some parameters and hard lines before Christmas. If you go into the holidays without this, you could be the start of a heavy duty spiral that destroys his life. That would be so unbelievably cruel and you could destroy his life for years to come. Bipolar is no joke. [/quote] This is not fair to her. She is not sure what she wants to do. She’s entitled to think about it to make sure.[/quote] No one is entitled to ruin anyone’s life. What I said is to be clear about boundaries and if you’re dating someone with mental illness but not sure of your intent, it is beyond cruel and dangerous not to set boundaries. And it’s in her interest too. If she sets into motion a spiral that results in his suicide, living with that would certainly have an adverse impact on her life. [/quote]
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